SameSide
A shared space for you and the ones that matter most.
Honest, private, no pressure.
Start your space
First, your own profile. Once it's up you'll get a QR code — anyone who matters can scan it to link in. This starter is 18+; teens join through a parent's link.
Your password is stored as a scrambled fingerprint, not plain text. Only you can get in as you.
Link them in
Share this code — they scan it, add their profile, and they're part of your space.
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Tap the code to copy it, or share the ready-made link below.
Can't scan? Enter their space code to link on this device:
Join a space
Someone linked you in — say who you are and you're in.
Picks itself from sex — tap to change.
What your private companion is called — you can change it in Settings.
Your profile (name, photo, everything) comes along — just enter your password to confirm it's you.
Or skip linking: finish your profile and chat 1-on-1. Group Chat stays locked until you link with someone.
SameSide
Welcome back.
On — stays signed in until you sign out. Off — signs you out after 24 hrs.
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New to SameSide?
Reset your password
We'll email you a one-time link to set a new one.
Choose a new password
4+ characters. You'll use it to sign in.
Before we begin
Read it through. Then accept it on your own — this is the deal.
Foundation questionnaire
This isn't a test — it's a quick frame of reference so the coach learns to speak your language. Just pick what fits — the real depth happens in your private chat. Answer as honestly as you can.
💞 Love language assessment
The platinum rule needs to know how you actually receive love. 20 quick either/or picks — go with your gut. Results show how strong each language is for you, not just a label.
Locks in what you've picked — you can reopen and change anytime.
💬 Connections
Chats and the people in your space.
🔒 Group Chat unlocks once you're linked with someone. Share your invite link (the 🔗 up top) so they can join your space — or open an invite link someone sent you.
How are you feeling?
🧭 Your side of things
Your parent can see your check-ins, notes, and prompt answers — that's built in for anyone under 18. Your foundation answers stay yours alone. Say it full.
👀 Your teens
You can see their shared activity by design — that's the point. Their foundation answers stay theirs.
📡 Tension radar
A quiet watch over moods, energy, and notes. If something shifts, the coach says something.
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🗣 Translator
Say it the way you'd say it — the coach hands it back in their dialect, with notes on why.
🗂 How each of you speaks
Built from everyone's foundation answers. The richer they are, the sharper the coach gets.
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💡 Coaching notes
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This is just you and me (the mini Tia who lives inside SameSide) — nothing here reaches outside the app.
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👤 Personal info
What the people in your space see.
That's you — pick an emoji below, paste a link, or upload a photo.
💞 How each of you feels loved
The platinum rule: love people the way they want to be loved. If all she does is things for you but never touches you, it won't land. If you can't keep your hands off her but she'd rather you made the bed — that misses too. Neither's wrong. Learn theirs, speak it — and when they speak yours back, receive it like the love it is.
Yours — tap in the order that fits you:
Our foundation
8 quick multiple-choice questions — honest first take; the deep dive happens in private chat.
🔒 Security — change your password
4+ characters. You'll use it to sign in from any phone.
🤖 Your agent
Your bot's name is YOURS alone — it only shows in your private chat. It never changes anyone else's bot.
The space-wide agent name is the shared identity for the space — it does NOT rename anyone's private bot.